A very happy end of the week to you all! Today I have another question from the blog mailbox:
Dear Editrix,
Does a mentor have a protégé or a mentee? I’ve recently heard mentee but it sounds like a made up word.
Alan (a credit union fan)
Dear Alan,
My apologies that this comes four months after you sent the question.
I’ve often wondered about the legitimacy of the word mentee, too. We have good reason to think that someone who is mentored (tutored, coached, taught) would be called a mentee because of a common pattern in English. We take a word, like advise, lease, or mortgage and then add an –or or –er to indicate the person who is making or doing something with that word; then we add –ee to indicate the person who is receiving or benefitting from the item or action. It’s easier to look at some common examples to see this pattern:
| Act/Object | Actor | One receiving or benefitting from the action |
| advise/advice | advisor | advisee |
| bail out/bail | bailer | bailee |
| employ/employment | employer | employee |
| grant/grant | grantor | grantee |
| lease/lease | lessor | lessee |
| mentoring/mentorship | mentor | mentee |
| mortgage to/mortgage | mortgagor | mortgagee |
| pay/payment | payer | payee |
| trust/trust | trustor | trustee |
Yes, dear Alan, mentee has been a word meaning “one who is mentored,” or protégé, since 1965. And now for some additional definitions, from Merriam-Webster:
· manatee (not to be confused with mentee)
A large animal that lives in warm waters and eats plants
· protégé (male); protégée (female)
A young person who is taught and helped by someone who has a lot of knowledge and experience; one who is protected or trained or whose career is furthered by a person of experience, prominence, or influence
Two manatees hanging out in Florida, discussing the dangers of motorboats:
Kara Church
Technical Editor, Advisory


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